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Bye Bye Blasé: Lockdown's Impact on Neighbourly Relations

When settling in a city like London, the 'moneybag' of England (Simmel 2004:14), one almost expects to never meet their neighbours. You could see them in public and vaguely recognise them. (Simmel 2004:16) A polite smile, perhaps even a wave, but a chat would be far too bold. For many people in cities, being relationally distant from those physically closest to you is an accepted reality. 

Compared to rural life which "flows more slowly" (Simmel 2004:13), urban life has a much faster pace. The internal and external stimuli of the city cause inhabitants to become detached as a means of protection. We can draw on Marx's concept of Entfremden, or estrangement (Marx et al. 1970:10), wherein an individual can become alienated from themselves and from other people. Through his study of the city, Simmel is also led to a "theory of cultural alienation." (Frisby 2013:104)

With the outbreak of coronavirus, this has begun to change. What happens to Simmel's image of the estranged city dweller when they are instructed to remain in their local area? Not only has daily life been transformed, but relationships with neighbours have been completely renegotiated. Within these precarious times, many neighbours have abandoned their typical "blasé attitude." (Simmel 2004:15) A study conducted by King's College found that "60% have offered help to... neighbours, while 47% say they've received such help." (Duffy 2020:40)

A memorable element of the first lockdown was clapping for the NHS. Within my road, these were moments where we would catch up with neighbours and chat about the week gone.

Clapping for the NHS (Source: Author's own)

One of the main mediums of offering help has been Whatsapp groups, something my road has actively participated in. The group has been used to support each other, asking if anyone needs shopping, letting each other know when supermarket delivery slots were available, and sharing information about local delivery businesses. The Whatsapp group has been used to alert neighbours about burglaries and suspicious behaviour. On a more personal level, our group began notifying neighbours when elderly members were having birthdays. People made cards and sang a socially distanced happy birthday for them. 

Neighbours singing Happy Birthday (Source: VOA News)

As people became more acquainted with each other, it became common to see various sets of neighbours stood in the street, chatting. When it came to VE Day, our road organised a Covid secure tea! Everyone sat out on the street, the organiser brought round cupcakes and we were able to have lots of conversations. This helped my family to feel much less isolated. 

Not only did neighbours on my road help each other more, but this increased social cohesion also helped to "assist the wider interests of communities more generally." (Jones et al. 2020:3) People set up collection boxes for foodbanks outside their houses, that neighbours could contribute to. Many families gave away toys, books and plants, asking that a small donation to charity be made in return. 

While these gestures may seem small, neighbours are going out of their way to perform them. In my case, these newfound relationships also went a step further as restrictions relaxed. I began carrying out more active and meaningful gestures, like babysitting for various families on the street. Neighbours also began to support each other's small businesses, which is ongoing. Though there is some doubt that this neighbourliness will last beyond the pandemic, these smaller actions arguably become more intuitive, in some cases even replacing the previous blasé attitude. Through repeatedly performing these, we find both a "societal and personal transformation." (Biehl et al. 2007:4)


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    Barkham, P. et al. (2013) How well do you know your neighbours? [online] The Guardian. Available at: https://www.theguardian.com/society/2013/oct/30/how-well-know-your-neighbours 

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    BBC News (2021) Lockdown: Clap for Carers to return as Clap for Heroes. [online] BBC News. Available at: https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-55561108 

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